The couples that are meant to be are the ones who go through everything that is designed to tear them apart and come out even stronger than they were before. They don't give up on each other or their relationship when they go through hard times, even if it's the easy thing to do. 

You and your partner will experience hard times in your relationship – it’s inevitable. The question is, what can you do to stay optimistic and hold onto your relationship during tough times? 

Somebody once told me, that no relationship is perfect, but you have to find the imperfections and learn to live with them, that's when you know the effort is worth it. Everything in life has two sides, and relationships are no exception to this. These can give you the most beautiful moments in life as well as the worst, but you have to learn something new from each of these experiences. If you are going through hard times in a relationship, you need to understand that there is no point in making the situation worse but battle it bravely.  

The goal of a relationship is not to have no fights, but to learn how to handle the fights in a mature adult manner, without screaming and yelling, without calling names, and placing blame on the other person.There must be difference of opinion in a relationship, and even differences between fact and fiction. How you handle it is most important.

There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. Even if both of you are strongly in love with each other, problems may occur. Problems will occur. So deal with it. If you wanna go into a relationship, don’t expect sugar-coated situations all the time. Maybe the only thing the two of you can agree on lately is that you argue all the time. Maybe underlying ,fill-in-the-blank issues are creating more and more tension. When a new relationship is struggling, it’s not always easy to figure out what to do. Is this just a rough patch you need to get through together? Or is it time to cut your losses and move on in separate directions? 

When you’re in a spot like this, you basically need to confront two main possibilities. One is that you’re simply in the wrong relationship: your issues are insurmountable and will never allow you to have the fulfilling relationship you deserve. The other possibility is that you’re in the right relationship but it’s going to take real maturity, compromise and good old hard work to move past the issues that have surfaced.  If you love each other, always remember that especially when times get rough, that is to prevent immature fights and regretful break-upsAt some point, every relationship goes through some kind of Hell. Without it you would not be able to contrast the good times. Every relationship needs sustaining power to get you through the times when everything is not so rosy.

Remember, every problem is a gift - without problems we would not grow Relationships do have ups and downs, but if you guys can look past your problems and make up for them, then that's when the relationship becomes stronger.  

Baby , i know relationships.... they’re never perfect. We're always going to have fights, disagreements, insecurities, or just life getting in the way. But I have to say one thing.  I feel so incredibly lucky. We may have our ups and downs,  our struggles and our heartaches. Neither one of us is perfect and we have our flaws. But I believe we are fantastic for each other and our relationship is as close to perfect as it could ever be