"It is a risk to love.But what if it doesn't work out?Ah, but what if it does. " - Peter McWilliams
Some people spend their entire life bundled up in fears. What’s wrong with taking some risks? What’s wrong with rejection, or the unexpected? I know, one of the hardest things to do is to take a risk. It’s not because you’re too weak to do it but you’re too afraid to know the result because sometimes taking chances ruined everything. It’s not that you’re being pessimist but it’s because you’re just too afraid to be taken for granted.Love is everything it’s cracked up to be. That’s why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for. And the trouble is, if you don’t risk anything, you risk even more. You might gain something, you might not, but at least you know it was worth taking the risk. If you feel strongly about something, say it. If you love someone, tell them. Are you gonna watch as life passes by, or are you be a part of it?
"Love is nothing but an irony. You’ll never know when someone is meant for you, or meant for the arms of another. And there’s no other way to know which path is for you unless you take risks. Find chances that will either be the reason for your happiness or the root of all the pain."
And yess , you always take a risk when it comes to being with someone. You honestly don’t know how it will end. The two of you hope for the best in the beginning and hopefully it stays like that throughout the relationship but things never go as planned. You two could part ways slowly, you two could secretly hate the other and just want things to end, you two could have the biggest argument in the world that ends everything right then and there.
At some point, you have to make a decision. Boundaries don’t keep people out, they fence you in. Life is messy, that’s how we’re made. So, you can waste your life drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them. But there are some lines that are way too dangerous to cross. Here’s what i know, if you are willing to take the chance, the view from the other side is spectacular. Take chances, take a lot of them. Because honestly, no matter where you end up and with whom, it always ends up just the way it should be. Your mistakes make you who you are. You learn and grow with each choice you make. Everything is worth it. Say how you feel always. Be you, and be okay with it.